We are always in a hurry to be happy; for when we have suffered a long time, we have great difficulty in believing in good fortune.
Sometimes the most difficult decision is to not martyr yourself for someone, but instead to choose to live for them.
It is very difficult sometimes to keep awake, especially at church, but there is no difficulty at all about sleeping.[The Canterville Ghost]
Fate is difficult. Is all ordained? Foreknowledge is not fate, and we may choose our paths, yet fate says we may not choose them. So if fate is real, do we have choice?