I quote John Lennon, “A dream you dream alone is only a dream. A dream you dream together is reality.” After all, he was the walrus. I could be the walrus.
If she’s interested in you because of what you can do instead of who you are, then she isn’t worth your time. And if she isn’t, then you’re worried about nothing.
This fight? It’s not about who’s gonna control this world. It’s about who’s gonna build the next one.