Self-acceptance. If you’re not someone who has a natural and effortless love for yourself, it’s hard to let go of your desire to please other people, and that’s really not an ingredient for a happy life.
Source:Anne Hathaway's Oscars Advice: 'Do the Opposite of What I Did' by Taffy Brodesser-Akner, nytimes.com (January 6, 2015)