A lover always starts from his mistress to himself; with a husband the contrary is the case.[Un amant procède toujours de sa maîtresse à lui, c’est le contraire chez les maris.]
Source:(Dana Estes & Co., ed. 1901), Part II. Means of Defence, Interior and Exterior, Meditation XIX. Of the Lover, Aphorism LXXVII, Page 204